If you are new to therapy, you’re probably feeling some apprehension which is completely understandable. You may be uncertain about what to say, how long the therapy process takes, or whether benefits will arise from therapy. In Toronto and Vaughan, you certainly have therapeutic options which meet you where you are, including online appointments that take real life into account. At the Centre for Mind Body Psychotherapy, we look forward to working with you in a healing process with approaches that facilitate healing both physically and in different parts of your life including your thoughts, emotions, bodily sensations and relationships with others. That’s why you need to delve deeper to understand mind and body practices.
What is mind-body psychotherapy?
Mind-body psychotherapy looks at the relationships that exist between your nervous system, beliefs, and relationships. With some forms of therapy you speak about issues in your life without noticing what your body is doing when stress shows up in your life. Mind-body psychotherapy includes approaches which help you work through stuck patterns rather than avoiding them, including somatic therapy, EMDR, and Internal Family Systems (IFS). An integrative lens can be especially useful for working through trauma, anxiety and mood issues.
You may learn to identify sensations, pace your breath, and create safety signals your body can use as cues for trust. Your system learns to recognize safety so everyday triggers can lose their potency. Over time, you learn skills to ride the waves of emotion without shutting down or spinning out of control. This is a process towards a new habitual practice of being and responding in a more intermediate place rather than as an immediate reaction.
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How does therapy help with anxiety?
Anxiety is often a reflection of a nervous system that is working hard on your behalf to protect you. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is there to identify unhelpful thought loops, Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT) provides skills for emotion regulation. Somatic tools help ground you in the present so your body does not respond to every anxiety as an emergency. In conjunction, these approaches teach you to transform sharp spikes of panic into signals that you can manage. Go here for some tips on dealing with anxiety in general.
As you engage in the work you will likely mix and match several of these approaches:
- Recognise your habitual thinking traps, and substitute them with a more balanced thought.
- Practice paced breath to lower your physiological arousal in just a few minutes.
- Use exposure steps to address feared situations with support and structure.
- Add mindfulness techniques to increase your tolerance.
When you practise these various strategies your competence will develop, and you will begin to feel like you can trust yourself in stressful moments. The framework of the sessions will become a lab or a place for you to experiment, recalibrate and celebrate growth along the way.
Can counselling enhance self-esteem?
Your self-esteem can change when you engage with yourself through curiosity rather than critique. Counselling helps you recognise how previous messages, perfectionism, and people-pleasing have affected your inner voice. You learn to set boundaries, take note of small successes, and heal in healthier ways. These shifts don’t magically create smooth days but they give you ways to respond with strength and respect for yourself.
Work that is focused on attachment, can also heal the “template” you employ when building bonds with others. You practice receiving support and asking for what you need in session and then out of session. Over time, your self-worth evolves from something you strive to attain into something you can embody, and that is the shift the Centre for Mind Body Psychotherapy seeks to build.
Finding your way into your daily life
Start by choosing a single anchor skill to practice on a daily basis for a week. You will keep track of what supported you, what did not support you, and what changes you noticed in your body before and after using the skill. Bring this information with you to your session with your clinician so you can proactively refine your plan for moving forward. If you prefer the un-triggered pathway option, you can rotate skills depending on your energy level and schedule.
For many people, providing care during the pandemic has had an added benefit in that they are practicing frequently and immediately in their own home. You can provide an anchor like a small “regulation kit” that may contain a journal, fidget toy, headphones, and a calming scent. They are all available to you instead of relying on will power in moments of stress. For many people, this one simple change turns an insight into an action.
Getting the support that fits you
A productive, healthy, and effective therapy relationship is an experience you create, not a lecture. You are responsible for setting goals, tracking progress, and changing modalities (as necessary) when you feel ready. Some weeks will be focused on practicing skills and other weeks will be to process deeper stories using EMDR or IFS. What is important, is that you feel a sense of safety, you feel seen, and you are gradually feeling more effective in your daily life.
Adam Mulligan, a psychology graduate from the University of Hertfordshire, has a keen interest in the fields of mental health, wellness, and lifestyle.